I’m Paula.
Activator. Catalyst. Perspective shifter. Curious.
5/1 Sacral Generator · Buenos Aires · Amsterdam · GlobalTHE STORYI was doing all the right things.
Perfect student. Perfect daughter, sister, friend.
Building the life that made sense on paper.
And I had become numb.
I didn't know something else was possible. I was doing the best I could with the tools I had. Looking back now I can see I just wasn't listening - to myself, to the signals, to what life kept trying to tell me before it got loud enough to be impossible to ignore.
The robbery was loud enough.
In 2013 I lost my material belongings and moved to Amsterdam.
More than the things, I lost the labels I'd been carrying. And in losing them, I started finding something else.
What followed was a corporate career managing teams across Europe - and a different side of me started showing up. I got promoted every year. I pitched and created a role that didn't exist: Culture Manager. I'd seen firsthand what burnout looked like in organisations and I wanted to share what I'd been learning.
I did that role for two years before it was made redundant.
By 2020 I was offered something new. It was the middle of a pandemic. Everything was uncertain. Walking away from a stable job at that moment didn't make sense to most people around me.
It felt undeniably right.
My first coaching client came shortly after. She'd watched the shift happen and asked: how did you do it?
That question became the work.
the workI go through things first.
Then I make them accessible.
To Be Honest started with one insight, turned belief:
It takes radical honesty to change your life.
Radical honesty, radical responsibility, self-leadership and the willingness to make the necessary moves, regardless of circumstances. The course, the Book of You, the team workshops - all of it grew from that root.
Over the years the toolkit has expanded.
Human Design came in as the most precise map I'd found for that work. It gave language to what I had been experiencing and permission to trust it. It became central to how I work with clients because it makes the invisible visible. What you've been doing against your own nature without knowing it.
But curious as I am, it’s just one tool in a much wider practice.
Over the years I've trained as an Ayurveda instructor, studied conscious leadership, worked with energy practices, learned from Joe Dispenza, Akashic records daily, initiated in the Melchizedek Method.
I'm always in training, always exploring, always integrating what works.
We are antennas and part of a collective consciousness, which means that the work we do on ourselves ripples outward.
I take that seriously - which means I do the work on myself first, always.
What I bring to a session is not just knowledge. It's a field. Something shifts in the presence of someone who has done their own work. That's what I mean by activation.
We're always between versions of ourselves.
That's not a problem to solve - that's the point.
THIS IS A LIVING DOCUMENTThe work evolves because I do.
If you visited this site a few months ago, you may notice it looks different. That's intentional.
The work evolves because I evolve.
To Be Honest is the body of work - the tools, the course, the Book of You, the team workshops. The foundation, built for those who are ready to start asking honest questions about their lives.
It exists because I've been there - finding my footing, not knowing where to start, needing the root practices first.
And then there's a next moment. When the foundation is solid and something else becomes possible. That's where Portal comes in.
Portal is what's new. And it's different in kind.
Portal is for the founders, leaders, and seekers who don't need a starting point - they need a partner.
I know from experience that there's a point where having a partner - someone you can be fully yourself with, no agenda, no performance, no goals to hit - changes everything. Someone to co-create a field where you can access what you can't access alone.
That's Portal. My most intimate, transformational work.
It's here for those who feel the resonance.
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“Working with Paula made me find and understand myself at a different level. It made me aware and confident in my gut feeling, my thoughts and my process. It all starts with understanding.”
— mercedes labanca“Something that can be complex and overwhelming felt like information that my heart somehow already knew.”
— cristina de la concha“Paula’s kind and sharp.
You don't see her coming. She cuts through, rearranges things - and you won’t forget.”
— will F.FIND ME HERE
Stop Living in Autopilot with Human Design
I spoke with the Realistic Happiness Podcast about Human Design, conditioning, and what it means to stop living on autopilot.